Susan Kay (Jarman) Haigood, beloved wife, mother, grandmother, and friend passed away all to soon on April 10, 2025 in Oklahoma City, Oklahoma. She was born on November 22, 1955, in Wynnewood, Oklahoma, to John Orval Jarman and Nita Kathrin (Stephens) Jarman. Raised in Pauls Valley, Oklahoma, Susan grew up surrounded by siblings and cousins, creating treasured memories that would last a lifetime.
A proud student of Pauls Valley schools, Susan dedicated her life to caring for others. Susan owned and operated a daycare for over 30 years, providing a nurturing and loving environment for countless children. For 15 years, she was also the devoted caretaker of her beloved bonus son, Brandon — a role she embraced with selfless love and deep commitment.
On February 2, 2003, Susan married the love of her life, Steven Wayne Haigood, at Beaty Baptist Church. Together they shared a life full of laughter, love, and quiet joy. She attended First Church of God in Pauls Valley, where she found community and spiritual strength.
Susan's heart was her family. She was the center of every gathering, known for her warm hugs, quick wit, and the best lemon bundt cake around. Her kitchen was a place of comfort, where she cooked with love for her children and grandchildren. She found joy in playing games with family, embarking on girls' trips with her mom and sisters, and spending peaceful weekends camping with Steve. Her grandchildren and her husband were the light of her life, and she never missed a moment to show how deeply she loved them.
She taught by example — always putting family first, offering the kind of advice you did not always want but always needed, and living a life of compassion, honesty, and strength. To know Susan was to be loved, challenged, and encouraged to be your best self.
She leaves behind a legacy of love, laughter, and selfless service that will live on in the hearts of all who knew her.
Susan is survived by her husband, Steve Haigood; Mother, Nita (Stephens) Jarman; Sons, Shane Weatherford and wife Barbara, Michael Haigood; Daughters, Stacy Williams, Stacy Haigood; Bonus Son, Brandon; Brother, Danny Jarman and wife Laurie; Sisters, Linda Hurley and husband Oran, Donna Sharp and husband Bo; Grandchildren, Dylan Norman, Brett Autrey and husband Chazz, Abbigale Weatherford, Dakota Weatherford, Lily Williams; Great Grandchildren, Bria Norman and Rhylan Norman.
Susan was preceded in death by her father, Orval Jarman; Son, Scotty Williams; and Grandson, Jakob Norman.
Services for Susan will be Tuesday, April 15, 2025 at 10:00 A.M at Wooster Funeral Home in Pauls Valley, Oklahoma with Pastor Brandon Henry officiating. Interment will follow immediately at Mt. Olivet Cemetery in Pauls Valley, Oklahoma. There will be no visitation hours for Mrs. Haigood. If you would like to send your condolences to the family, you may do so at www.woosterfuneralhomes.com